Why Do You Need A Cancer Coach? Answered in CURE Magazine’s Fall 2011 Issue
October 17, 2011 at 6:47 pm 6 comments
After my chemotherapy ended, it took me three years to get my life back. I know now that the emotional challenges I experienced are universal. When we increase the number of days cancer survivors live we have an obligation to teach people how they can take actions that promote their well-being. Life coaching teaches people to be proactive about their lives during cancer and as survivors.
Would you or someone you love benefit from a cancer coach? CURE Magazine’s Fall 2011 issue explores the medical and practical aspects of the role of coaching in cancer care. I am honored to be part of the story.
GAME CHANGERS: Cancer patients and survivors turn to life or wellness coaches for guidance.
BY JENNIFER M. GANGLOFF
CURE Magazine Fall 2011 Issue, PUBLISHED SEPTEMBER 14, 2011
Hildreth Stafford arrived at an unsettling juncture after treatment for breast cancer. She had endured a double mastectomy, radiation, aggressive chemotherapy, a hysterectomy and reconstructive surgery. She lost her hair, her eyebrows and her eyelashes, and her husband and young children were left reeling. When it was over, she felt like a different person. Once a hard-driving TV producer, she became fearful and stuck, unable to move forward.
“When I finished treatment, I knew my life was going to change dramatically,” recalls Stafford, 47, who received a diagnosis of stage 2 breast cancer in 2009. “I knew what I needed to do, but I just couldn’t do it. I decided I wanted a life coach to help me, and she completely changed my life.”
Stafford interviewed several coaches by phone, and one of them directed her to Paula Holland De Long, a life coach, author and motivational speaker—and a fellow breast cancer survivor. For Stafford, that was just the connection she needed. After only two coaching sessions with De Long, Stafford felt equipped to act on her plan that alone she didn’t feel brave enough to carry out: In June 2010, she walked away from the successful television production company she co-owned.
“Once I did it, I never looked back,” Stafford says. “It was so hard to walk away after more than 20 years in television, but Paula gave me the courage, the strength and the guidance to do it.”
A New Kind of Quarterback
Stafford is among a growing number of cancer patients turning to life and wellness coaches for guidance in a variety of areas—nutrition, exercise, work, relationships and stress management, for example. Coaches can help cancer patients across the continuum of care, from receiving a new diagnosis with complicated treatment options to end-of-life decision-making.
….. At Duke Integrative Medicine in Durham, N.C., for example, there’s a team approach to care that includes coaching, if desired. “In our program, a physician may be working with a massage therapist, an acupuncturist, a nutritionist, a stress management therapist and a health coach,” says Linda Smith, PA, director of professional and public programs at Duke Integrative Medicine’s Integrative Health Coach Professional Training program. “Essentially, the entire team works together with the patient to develop a health plan.
“As a result, the patient walks away with a substantive health plan that addresses every aspect of health and well-being that they can then take into their real-life situations,” she adds.
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RENU MISHRA | November 29, 2011 at 2:19 pm
I AM A CANCER PATIENT. IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE WHO CAN HELP ME GET MY LIFE BACK INTO ORDER?
I WANT TO LIVE. I WANT TO WIN.
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survivorlifecoachpaula | November 30, 2011 at 5:18 pm
Hello Renu. I so understand your frustration about getting your life back. For me, as with many survivors, my starting point for healing included two components: 1. Sharing my fears and frustrations with other survivors, and 2. Getting really clear about what matters most to me and giving myself permission to have more of those things in my life. There is a free Personal Values Exploration you can access on my website at http://www.whatsnextformylife.com/Personal%20Growth.html. I can also offer you a free 30 minute telephone coaching session if you are interested in talking about your situation. Believe me, you can get your life back. My best to you.
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RENU MISHRA | December 1, 2011 at 7:25 am
THANKS for responding Paula. Please help as I don’t know what to do & am surrounded by -ve thoughts.
I am a divorcee & live alone. The few friends & relatives I have, have their own lives to live. I feel life isn’t worth living anymore.
Please advice.
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Chanduchakram Chalbaz | December 3, 2011 at 10:48 am
Hi Paula. Hope somebody out there understands the fear & anxiety a woman suffering from Oral Cancer faces.
If there is someone who does, please help that woman [ME], to get her life back once again.
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survivorlifecoachpaula | December 5, 2011 at 6:00 pm
Hello Renu. Here are my thoughts. 1. How can you get connected with other survivors who can support you? This is essential. You’ll have to reach out and see what is out there. 2. What are the things that made your life worth living before cancer? Finding a small starting point of gratitude and joy, no matter how simple or small, to focus on can help a lot. 3. If you are interested in having a conversation, we could communicate via Skype. I want you to know what what you are feeling is normal, and that with effort it can be overcome.
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kitty kapplan | April 13, 2012 at 2:08 am
Hip-Hip Hooray!! And thank you for sharing!! I feel recharged for what I do. Sometimes the support team needs a little support! Bless you!